Man wants to fix unstable girlfriend
Dear Amy: My girlfriend and I are both 28 years old. We have been living together for two years now, and I love her very much, but we are far from perfect.
My girlfriend is the most emotional woman I have ever met. She cries almost every day -- several times a day over the smallest things. For example, she cries when she's out of cigarettes and can't afford more and when she's out of marijuana to smoke (it's possible she has post-traumatic stress disorder); she has been prescribed Xanax for her anxiety). Sometimes she doesn't even know why she's crying. She also has anger issues, which end up causing her to have accidents and get hurt.
She just got over a broken hand from punching a wall and a broken foot for the same thing.
She tells me I'm the best thing that's ever happened to her. I do everything she asks of me, and more.
Amy, I would die for her, but sometimes I feel resentful because she takes advantage of me.
It stresses me out because nothing I do helps and her self-loathing and cursing tongue add to my stress level. She hints at how she would be dead if I weren't in her life.
Recently, I made a horrible mistake and started a flirting relationship with a friend of mine.
I feel bad now because of how I flirted, and I worry even more because my girlfriend can become manic over the smallest things.
Can I let this slide, if I promise myself I'll never do it again? Help!
-- Worried BF
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